How to be a good BF?

Many of us, guys must have wonder how can we be a good bf?

Gals, will always complain things like
Why my friend did this to his gf and you can't?
Why u don't call me always?
Why u always like to hang out with your friends?
Why u don't treat me as nice as before?
Why you always go out with this gals? Is there something you r hiding from me?
Why do i hear romours of you with (her)?
Why do you come back so late?


Why, why, why..... and man... you will have endless list of why sometimes....... some will never think about the question what... such as..

What have my bf done for me?
What have my bf done to keep me happy?
What have my bf gone through just so that he can call me?
What have we gone thru to be at where we are now?
What is more precious then to have someone love u truthfully?
What keep my bf and i so so close?
What have my bf done that is better then anoyone else bf?

What, what, what...

Today, guys have to go through this test of rumours, gossips and backstabbing of the so-called world of gals. How can a male become a good bf? What justify a good bf? What makes up an ideal bf?

Everyone knows, Men are from Mars, Womyn are from Venus. REMEMBER... communication is the key to bring this two together....

To my understand as a guy, and having a gf myself. I think to be a good bf today seem so much harder than long time ago.

Telecommunications

Decade ago, guys can have excuses of saying, no phoneline, no internet and no mobile so cannot have this instant communications. As technology improves, so did our gals moving with it, expectation of reply of hearing from the bf increased... must recevie SMS, must receive call, must receive e-mail or chat online. either one of those if not all. GUYS well most of them, r expected to pay all, except for some cases where the GF is damn... rich... or just (too understanding)... then well either pay all (when they r blind by the power of love, HA!HA!) or part sharing.

Magazines, their source of informations

Gals mag... welll one of mens... worst nightmare sometime.... it give the gals so much information and sometime too generalised information that, many gals cannot use thier own originality and common sense to differentiate what is good or bad.

Have anyone wonder why... gals magazines.. salesss increase by double... welll guys are buying it to understand what thier gf is learning and absorbing hehehehhehe...... POOR Guys...


Friends

I guesss this happen since long time ago, PEER PRESSURE... one of the most common threat and enemy of guys...... Guys a tip for you.... never make enemy or offend your gf's friend. If you did, just prepare for the worst scenario sometime.... GALS POWER.... the new-age power... all want to be on top all want to be well-respected. So guys... do respect and accept the changing world. EQUALITY is the word... and dealing with gals remember to add in another E, EQUALITY-EMOTIONAL. :D...

Never offend a gal unless u feel the gal have no connection to u in anywhere. Many gals are now...... so powerful that whats' bite you, you don;t even knows..... Want to win the heart of you gf, remember to treat your gf's fren nicer.... but NOT to fall in love with them okie... or else.. u will have a CAT FIGHT outside ur doorway later hehehhee.

Caring and Loving

Many have wonder, how to justify caring and loving, when you think you done enough, somehow ur gf will come out with more ideas of how they justify caring and loving. The list of caring and loving seem... so long and endless... hm..... so some tips...

To show u care and love to a gal sometime is not hard... it depends which category r u at 1st. There it will justify ur requirement

1) Totally hopeless bf
In a long distance situation

One sms a day will do fine, even if it is identical will be cool. Well if plus one call even better. A daily one communication is cool.

In a normal situation

Call or go and see your gf once a day will be fine for her...

2) Average bf
In a long distance situation

Well... a constant communication has to be establish. Has to be pretty active communication, e-mail, sms, call online and another other mean of communication u can think of...

In a normal situation

Well sure expect you to spent at least couple of hrs with her, if both of u r working... maybe for dinner then go and watch movie, not neccessarily outside, can be at home also, Then go for GALS "Retial T."

3) Well and good bf
In long distance situation.
More and more communication. Not only has a good communication but also have to do much more like remembering all the anniversary dates, buy gifts for her, surprise her when she is really miss u, 24/7 on call....

In a normal situation
Well... gifts....surprises... be there... 24/7 on call.... anniversary....calll.... bring her out... give her some time break.. when she wants... understanding her behaviour and attitude... undertsand her way of living.... understanding how she works... and etc.etc.....

Welll this is just some of my tips... and my tips okie... not neccessarily true for you... hahaha so find out ur own GF needs...and thinking... MY GF... hm... yet to discover.. very complicated... this is my expereince with my other ex-gf and talking to my frens....

GUYS.. remember... when u r broke.... never to have a gf.. if you want to have a gf remember try to be loaded.... LOOK AT ME i am broke... and not sure why my gf think now... sure i guess thinking i am not caring etc... coz, expectation of calling or sms is not done... well... it cost money.. when talk about money.. sure end up quarrelling.... man.... i don't know how... now... i am not a money printing machine nor i am well-loaded person... lately been living of remaining home food and frens.. treating..... thanks to all my fren who treat me... like hui lin, sam and renneee. man... i feel sometime.,... why can't anyone undertsand my situation. i wish my gf to understand, she seems to undertsand but yet.. sometime.. seems like not...well gals... told ya... complicated being... hehehe