Sometime i wonder how i can survive in the world full of love and being in love. For the past few months, I have been questioning myself how is it like to be in love and not to fall in love agian. till today, i still haven't got my answer yet.
i know i am in love before with a gal and thought she will be in my heart for a very long time but today i found out that i have fall in love with another gal.
Many freinds have advised me that not to go after this gal becuase she is attached. but i have refused to listen for some reasons and problems i have learn from the past.
Theory say that, if you love a person so much then learn to let go and if she is happy you will be happy. we shouldn't be selfish and must learn to let go. for years i learn this theory, which make me lost so many people and hurt myself so much that i feel like i want to give up my life once.
Today is a day which i have o choose agian. between giving up the person i love so much and let her love the another person and don't try it out. or should i take the risk and try to make it work out.
there has been an old saying that, if we try we at least have some chance of succeeding but if we give up now we will always find failure only.
I am now really lost between the two principle.... which one is the best????
gttg now people i am too tired to type now will continue laterzz....
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Jacky dear, I still say this to you...if ur intentions (i.e. the choice you are gonna make) are pure in heart, sincere and honest, the results of your intentions wil be pure in heart, sincere and honest....I believe we all have a choice to make, it is up to you which one you'll choose...that's why God gave us a choice; to choose good or evil...He never and will never force us to choose good over evil...He gave us brains and hearts to figure it out ourselves...pray about your intentions and may He show you the way! God Bless You!
Scenario 1. She isn't your gf, she is someone else's gf. But you love her so much so you take a risk and go for it.
Scenario 2. She becomes your gf, but another guy likes her too. So now you pray pray hard that the other guy does not follow Scenario 1.
Life is full of mystery, we will never know the answer untill the day the result release. Beaware that is your choice, no one to blame except yourself.
Sometime we need to take care of the others feeling and think about other situation when we make our choice, not to be too selfish...your choice might make others' life "complicated". However, there isn't perfect answer or decision, depend what you weigh the most...wish you all the best...good luck for everything...
jacky teo,
yet another cycle i'll hv to endure with. being ur fren & after seeing u go thru so many bumps i'm noticing a weirdo cycle dat u seem to be following. for goodness sake, make life easier for urself & other ppl. dun get too caught up in dat bittersweet flowery world dat u're in...it is after all...also bitter. take care ya!!!
hugs,
tiffy
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